I was on Stoney's recent distribution to receive this special piece about Lois. I was so moved. With Stoney's permission, I am sharing it on the Forum for those who may not have seen it.
God bless you, Stoney and family ......
Donna Dodd
Georgia Steel Guitar Association (GaSGA) Board Member & Website Administrator
"Every person is a new door to a different world."
- from movie Six Degrees of Separation
I too miss Ms. Lois' smiling face at each show I go to. And I think often of the very first time I was invited to play on a steel guitar show. Stoney called me after someone referred me to him to play on his Smokey Mtn. Jamboree in Knoxville. All of the scheduled players were also invited to a little BBQ/picnic in the backyard at Stoney & Lois' house on Friday afternoon before the show started. I went, reluctantly, and was welcomed into the fold. Lois and the other gals put on a feed that you couldn't believe. And she would not let me get away without trying some of her homemade banana pudding. Needless to say we were friends for the next 30 years or so until she passed.
We all love and miss you Ms. Lois. Love you too, Stoney.
Lois was a wonderful and amazing friend to all of us for a lot of reasons. I never will forget meeting her at the ISGC in 2003. She was a wonderful person to talk to. When I told her that Stoney got me started playing the steel guitar, her eyes went wide open! She was a wonderful part of the steel guitar family!
I was going through some old pictures earlier this week and came across this one of Linda and I. Now, look closely at the two "I'm gonna be in your picture" in the background.
Thought this was pretty neat.
AUTHORIZED PEAVEY, George L's, Goodrich dealer. I have 2 steels and several amps. My current rig of choice is 1993 Emmons LeGrande w/ 108 pups (Jack Strayhorn built for me), Goodrich OMNI Volume Pedal, George L's cables and Peavey Nashville-Session 112 or 115.
Lois and I only saw each other at the convention, and did not know each pother very well. But she always greeted me with a warm smile whenever we met. I always felt that she was a very nice lady.
The passing of a loved one always makes us search ahead because we know each of us will pass through that portal at some time. (Hebrews 9:27)But death is not the end, it's just a transition. The real part of each of us (our spirit)continues beyond death. On the "other side" we retain our character, personality, traits, and our memories and talents. We miss those who have departed and they miss us as well. It's a one way street, they can't return to us (Ecclesiastes 9:6) but we can, when it's our time, go to them and they will be there to welcome us.(2 Samuel 12:23)It is something we can look foreward to with joy and hope. Maybe that is one reason why the wise Solomon said that the day of one's death is better that the day of his birth. (Ecclesiastes 7:1)